Meet the face
behind the posts
I started Not Needing New to celebrate second hand stuff. I was (am) in a financial situation where it was the only way to manage. People kept saying things looked good, or cool, or stylish and I heard myself saying over and over, that it was from the charity shop, from the tip, found in a freebie box etc.
I thought it would be good to try to show that you don't need money or youth to be sustainably stylish. You need a bit of imagination, some bravado and actually, age helps, because you care less about opinions that are shared with the sole intention of trying to squash you.
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Here's a few key things about me that shape my blogs and might help you decide if you're interested in the content! Maybe you relate to a few of them.
A Few Facts
I’m 52
I'm a single mum of a teenager & a 20 year old.
My children's dad is a stroke survivor, the impact is lifelong though.
We lost our family home and the kids and I now live in a small 3rd floor flat.
I haven't had my own bedroom for 8 years. There's no garden.
I work for a vintage car restoration company.
I ended my 23 year teaching career in Dec 2019. I knew the demands of the job were constantly pulling me away from the 2 children who really needed me.
I have 14 brothers and sisters.
I gave up all alcohol on May 1st 2020. Over 5 years. I feel (and look, I think..) a bloody hell of a lot better. I was getting very reliant on red wine.
I have a builder boyfriend. He's a single dad. We don't live together. This sometimes breaks my heart.
I'm usually with Beamer, my Jack Russell Terrier.
I'm absolutely and utterly proud that I keep my household going on very limited means. I DO NOT feel ashamed of my second hand style.
I pretty much have everything I want and need.